We’ve all been told to do this, by ourselves even. It’s the goal, isn’t it? Love them like they are our children? But when it comes down to it, there are many reasons this is an unreasonable expectation… here’s why. History Stepmoms are coming in after, some of us long after, the children have developed […]
5 Reasons Stepmoms Shouldn’t Be Pressured To Love Stepchildren Like Their Own Read More »
As stepmoms, there is no limit to the occasions that we are left feeling unappreciated, insignificant, or like we simply don’t belong and Mother’s Day is a big one. Leading up we can feel excited, anxious, and full of hope that this will be the year that we are finally recognized in a way that
5 Ways to Prep for Mother’s Day as a Stepmom Read More »
I’m feeling slightly intimidated to put this out there, but what better way to hold myself to these goals?! If I’m being completely honest, I don’t typically do new years resolutions, or really organize my ideas enough to make them into focused goals, but I want so much out of this year that I figured
My Top 5 Goals for 2022 Read More »
Is it just me, or did this year fly by? I know we were in the middle of a pandemic, but somehow I am surprised at how quickly time has passed even through the chaos. My maternity leave is coming to an end, my little guys are getting ready to re-enter/enter daycare and the big
My Reflections on 2021 Read More »
Admittedly I spent years making my life more complicated than it needed to be. Being a stepmom certainly comes with a whole load of stresses, but I didn’t do myself any favors when it came to navigating them. In hopes to help you from making the same mistakes I did, I’ve put together a list
Five Tips To De-Stress Life As A Stepmom Read More »
Being the better house was a central focus for me for years. Doing all the fun things. Having all the best stuff. I wanted the kids to prefer being with us. I wanted this for a few reasons, most of which I’m not very proud of. I loved when we would do something for the
Dropping the Better House Contest Read More »
Being a stepmom is hard. We all know this. We have to endure battles that started before us, bite our tongues when we want to scream and accept the unacceptable. There are struggles that we never anticipated having to work through. For me, it’s been accepting that I do not get a first family. Knowing
Accepting You Do Not Have A First Family Read More »
Being a stepmom is hard. I can tend to have a bit of a temper and my filter wasn’t always at the ready when words would fly out of my mouth. These characteristics aren’t exactly ideal when it comes to being in a blended family. I remember the feeling, the pit in my stomach, whenever
It’s Not My Stepkids, It’s Me Read More »
I’m currently on maternity leave with the youngest. I was grateful for the timing, mostly because I got to be home for two summers with all of the kids. Typically I do save my vacation time for when the big kids are with us, but it was so nice being able to be together for
Transition Day For The Long Distance Blended Family Read More »
When becoming involved with a man who has children, there are many things to consider. It can be so overwhelming. How do you respond to the children, the biomom, and other family members? Do you discipline, be the friend, keep quiet? I wish I had been given more advice when I was entering the role.
Beginners Guide To Becoming A Stepmom Read More »
